Trusting in God and His timing is one of the hardest things for me to do. I am pretty sure that I am not alone. We are impatient people. We want what we want when we want it. We don’t want to wait. I’m sure it drives God nuts in how impatient we can be.
My wife has been planning a trip for us and she will routinely tell me that she’s got this. It is her way to keep me from stressing out about it. When someone says “I’ve got this” it means you don’t have to worry about it. They are handling it so don’t stress about it
Worry is such a nasty word. I hate to worry yet I often find myself there. When we pray, we are presenting our desires to God but many times we walk away and continue with stressing about the very thing we prayed for.
God knows us and knows more than anything we could. This is a God who knows the very details of how many hairs we have on our head. Nothing that happens to us surprises Him and you won’t hear Him say “oops”. He’s got everything under control.
Okay, let’s be honest here. It sure doesn’t seem like He does. I know I will even look up in my despair and ask Him does He even see what’s going on. The fact is that He does and He’s not under any obligation to share every little detail of His plan with us.
Just this past week I offered up a prayer about a particular need. It wasn’t one of those on-my-knees-crying-out-to-God prayers. It was a rather weak request but it was sincere, honest and from my heart. I talk to God just like I would talk to you. I presented my request to Him. I would like to tell you that I had all kinds of faith that God was going to do something. I did have a measure of faith but certainly nothing you would be impressed with. The very next day God not only answered that prayer but He did above and beyond anything that I expected. I was totally overwhelmed. I spent the rest of the day thanking Him for it. It was incredible.
I also asked God to help me to remember that moment. Remember how it felt when a prayer was answered. I want to always keep moments like those on my mind when prayers aren’t being answered or when it seems God isn’t listening.
I assure you they God had a plan. Timing with God is important. We pray things and we expect to get them right away. I’ve been doing this a long time and I can tell you that it is very rare for a prayer to be answered right away. Most of the time, it takes time.
There are times when God had to answer prayers around the free will that people have. God isn’t going to force people to do what He wants them to do. He’s moving the chess pieces around to get things in place to answer our prayers. God will often work in ways we cannot see and get our prayers answered in ways we would have never thought of. It can come from totally unexpected places. I know because I often find myself trying to visualize how God is going to do it. Sometimes I will even try to help Him with His plan which I am sure amuses Him.
I’m glad that God is in control and I can have faith that He’s got this.
Although there is currently a league called the National Lacrosse League, the first attempt at creating a professional indoor lacrosse league came in the mid-70s as hockey owners attempted to fill their arenas during the summer months with a sport which was similar to hockey.
Lacrosse in the 70s was virtually an unknown to much of the United States except for the Northeast.
Unfortunately, the league was not very successful with only the Philadelphia and Montreal franchises having any sizeable crowds in attendance. Some of the notable players were Rick Dudley, Doug Favell and Bruce Arena. Arena would achieve more notoriety later as the head coach of the United States National Soccer Team.
In the two seasons that the NLL was in existence, the teams were:
Rochester Griffins (1974) became Long Island Tomahawks (1975)
Syracuse Stingers (1974) became Quebec Caribous (1975)
Toronto Tomahawks (1974) became Boston Bolts (1975)
Teams played a whopping 48-game schedule during the summer months. The playing surfaces were not artificial turf as it is today but mostly covered ice rinks as the game was played on the same size as hockey teams used.
Players were paid about $6,500 a year to play in the NLL and most of the players were from Canada where the sport was more successful than in the United States at the time.
The Rochester Griffins won the 1974 title by defeating the Philadelphia Wings four games to two. In 1975, the Quebec Caribous defeated the Montreal Quebecois in six games.
In one of the more interesting stories about the Philadelphia Wings, the Wings debuted in Philadelphia on Sunday night, May 19th, 1974. The Philadelphia Flyers beat the Boston Bruins that afternoon at the Spectrum to capture the Stanley Cup. While the city celebrated, stadium workers hurriedly flipped the building, laying the NLL”s wooden court over the ice for the Wings game that same night. Wings players made their way through the revelers out on the streets to get to the arena. An announced crowd of 12,841 turned out to watch the Wings beat the Montreal Quebecois 18-11.
When three of the six remaining teams went bankrupt before the 1976 season, the season was cancelled. Professional indoor lacrosse returned in January 1987 with the Eagle Pro Box Lacrosse League. Today’s NLL has 11 teams spread across North America to include the San Diego Seals which begin play next season.
American Arena League (AAL) – The Richmond Roughriders and Atlanta Havoc won close games to advance to the title game. The Roughriders jumped out to a 22-0 lead on the Carolina Energy in the first quarter then had to rally from a 29-22 deficit in the third quarter as the Roughriders scored on five consecutive possessions for a 57-43 win. The Atlanta Havoc was the higher seeded team in their semifinal matchup with the Cape Fear Heroes but due to scheduling conflicts they had to play in Fayetteville, North Carolina. The Havoc scored with 22 seconds left to take a 61-54 win as Quarterback Chris Wallace scored from three yards out.
Arena Football League (AFL) – The Philadelphia Soul (5-4) defeated the Albany Empire (5-4) in a thrilling game at the Times Union Center in front of 9,534 fans with a final score of 75-74 and are now tied with Albany for 2nd place. With 0.4 seconds left in the game, Soul QB Shane Austin found WR Darius Prince in the end zone to score the game-winning 10-yard touchdown. Although the Empire led the entirety of the second half, the Soul made the comeback of the year as they scored 12 points in the last minute of the game.
Champions Indoor Football (CIF) – Top-seeded Duke City Gladiators opened the playoffs with a 50-39 win over the Wichita Force to claim their first postseason win in franchise history. With 4:30 left in the game trailing 39-31, the Gladiators outscored the Force 19-0 including a fumble recovery in the end zone as time expired. In other playoff games: Texas Revolution 56, Amarillo Venom 45; Sioux City Bandits 54, Quad Cities Steamwheelers 46; Salina Liberty 81, Bismarck bucks 51.
Indoor Football League (IFL) – The six-time world champion Arizona Rattlers (11-3) defeated the Nebraska Danger (4-10) in the final game of the regular season by a score of 59-23 at Eihusen Arena in Grand Island, Nebraska. The win earns the Rattlers home field advantage for at least the first round of the playoffs. The Rattlers took command of the game early, scoring 13-straight points, and never relented. Arizona’s offense, defense, and special teams all put points on the board in a 36-point win. The Rattlers offense consisted mostly of the run game, with RB Darrell Monroe leading the way with 88 yards and three touchdowns. QB Verlon Reed, who came in for QB Jeff Ziemba midway through the second quarter, also had a big night on the ground, rushing for 77 yards and four touchdowns. Other scores from last weekend: Sioux Falls Storm 69, Green Bay Blizzard 61 (3 ot); Iowa Barnstormers 54, Cedar Rapids Titans 21. This weekend’s playoff matchups: Nebraska Danger at Iowa Barnstormers; Sioux Falls Storm at Arizona Rattlers.
Major Lacrosse League (MLL) – The Dallas Rattlers defeated the Ohio Machine by a score of 17-16 on Sunday night to take sole possession of first place in Major League Lacrosse. The Rattlers started off the first quarter with a strong three-goal run that opened with Jordan Wolf recording his 150th MLL career goal. Another milestone came with the second goal as Ty Thompson netted his first goal of the evening to make it 18 straight appearances with at least one goal. Thompson’s streak dates back to May 6, 2017. The Rattlers defense held the Machine to a scoreless final period of play. With the 17-16 win, the Rattlers are now in sole possession of first place and are the only MLL team to be undefeated at home.
Major League Quidditch (MLQ) – The league is taking a break this week due to the International Quidditch Association (IQA) World Cup which is being held June 27-July 2 in Florence, Italy. Australia is the defending World Cup Champions. The MLQ will resume league play on July 7th.
Major League Rugby (MLR) – In the largest match of the inaugural Major League Rugby season, the Glendale Raptors stood tall. The first-place Raptors (7-0) put their undefeated record on the line against the second-place Seattle Seawolves on Saturday night at Infinity Park in a match that decided the top of the MLR standings two weeks ahead of the MLR Playoffs. With so much to play for right in front of them, the Raptors knocked off the Seawolves (6-2) 33-11. Glendale swept the season series and kept their record unblemished.
Last week’s scores:
NOLA Gold 46, Utah Warriors 43
Glendale Raptors 33, Seattle Seawolves 11
San Diego Legion 31, Austin Elite Rugby 17
This week’s schedule:
Houston SaberCats at Utah Warriors
Glendale Raptors at San Diego Legion
National Arena League (NAL) – The Maine Mammoths (2-7) took on the Lehigh Valley Steelhawks (0-8) for the second time this season. This victory is the Mammoths’ first victory in front of their home crowd and second win overall in the 2018 season. Their first victory was against the Steelhawks in Week Three with a 45-24 score. Quarterback Jonathan Bane returned to the Mammoths after suffering a minor injury. During the course of the game, he was 15-of-22 for 218 yards, five touchdowns, and one interception on the night. His top receiver was Devin Wilson, totaling eight receptions for 142 yards and five touchdowns. Wide Receiver Robert Brown Jr. made five receptions for 63 yards. On the defensive side for Brown Jr., he recovered a fumble and returned it all the way inside the five yard line, setting the Maine offense up to score. On special teams, he returned the opening kickoff 44 yards. Edgar Poe Jr. made one catch for 20 yards. On the rushing game, Desmond Maxwell had two rushes for three yards and one touchdown. Jackson Dallas rushed one time for two yards and one touchdown. Kicker Henry Nell was 7-of-7 on PAT’s, 0-for-1 on FG’s, and successfully made two deuces.
Last week’s scores:
Massachusetts Pirates 62, Columbus Lions 55
Maine Mammoths 62, Lehigh Valley Steelhawks 36
This week’s schedule:
Columbus Lions at Carolina Cobras
Maine Mammoths at Jacksonville Sharks
Lehigh Valley Steelhawks at Massachusetts Pirates
National Pro Fastpitch (NPF) – One big inning was all the USSSA Pride needed to end Cleveland’s three-game win streak. The Pride scored four runs in the bottom of the fourth to defeat the visiting Comets, 4-0, in the first of a three-game series at Space Coast Stadium. Jailyn Ford picked up the pitching victory for the Pride. She allowed just one hit and struck out four in five innings of work. Jolene Henderson struck out four of the seven batters she faced in the final two innings.
National Women’s Soccer League (NWSL) – Washington Spirit goalkeeper Aubrey Bledsoe was voted the National Women’s Soccer League (NWSL) Player of the Week by the NWSL Media Association for Week 11 and 12 of the 2018 NWSL season.Bledsoe, 26, recorded her third and fourth shutouts of the season leading the Spirit to back-to-back scoreless draws against Sky Blue FC on June 8 at Yurcak Field in Piscataway, NJ and Seattle Reign FC on June 16 at the Maryland SoccerPlex in Boyds, Md.
Women’s National Basketball Association (WNBA) – Washington Mystics forward Elena Delle Donne was named the Eastern Conference Player of the Week for games played against the Connecticut Sun and Los Angeles Sparks. This is the 13th player of the week honor of Delle Donne’s career. In Washington’s 95-91 win over the Sun, Delle Donne scored a season-high 36 points, shooting 13-for-22 from the field and grabbing six rebounds. Against the Los Angeles Sparks, she scored 18 points and had seven rebounds to go along with four steals. Delle Donne averaged 27 ppg and 6.5 rpg for the week.
Years ago I read a book called “Wild at Heart” by John Eldredge. In the book, he talks about the relationship between a father and son. He says that the one thing every son wants to hear from his father is: “You have what it takes”.
All I have to say to that is bull****!
You don’t need your father to tell you that you have what it takes. Believe me, I know. I spent most of my life trying to get the approval from my own father and sometimes it’s just not going to happen. So what do you do with that? What do you do when your father doesn’t tell you that you “have what it takes”? Do you just pack it up?
I have had older men in my life through the years who volunteered to be my “father figure” and to that I have always said “no thanks”. I didn’t need a stand-in father. You don’t need someone to affirm you as a man. You affirm it yourself by being a man. Don’t wait for some mushy, come-to-Jesus experience with your father to do it for you. Be real. Most men aren’t going to be all emotional or admit to any affections toward you to affirm your place in this world. Too many times people place blame on their shortcomings upon their parents. That’s just wrong. Yes, there is a reason we are who we are but we don’t have to stay that way or fall into some emotional void simply because we didn’t have the relationship we wanted to have with our parents.
Some have called it the “father wound” and the so-called experts want to suggest that this “wound” is the cause of our current issues or problems in life. Again I say bull****. You are who you are and you can’t blame some “father wound” for it. YOU have the power to change. I get irritated when I hear people make excuses such as “that’s the way they are” or “that’s how they were raised.” Cop out. That’s what it is. People would rather place blame than take control of their lives.
This so-called “father wound” is bull****!
Sure, it’s nice if you have a sweet relationship with your father then a trip to the Hallmark store is no problem in selecting a Father’s Day card. Not so for everyone. So what is a person to do? Crawl up in a corner in a ball and cry on Father’s Day? Does it suck? Sure it does but it’s not the end of the world and it’s certainly not the end of you. Just because you didn’t have the Andy Griffith-type father doesn’t mean you are inadequate as a man now. Let it go. It’s over. Whatever happened has past. We are responsible for the men we are today. So what if you tried everything to please your father and seek his approval? You may have made life choices because of him in hopes he would be pleased. If there’s one important lesson I have learned in this life is this: if you live your life trying to please everyone you won’t do and the only person who will be miserable is you. Don’t do that. If you are doing this I urge you to take a mental timeout and examine your life. I have discovered that you can do hundreds of things that please people but when you do that one thing that doesn’t it wipes out all of the pleasing things you’ve done.
The best way to be a better man and honor your father isn’t to crave his approval. The best way to honor him is to be the best man you can be. Be a man of integrity. Do what’s right. Be a good citizen.
Not to be mean here but what does his opinion matter anyway? It’s just his opinion based upon his own experiences. His opinion of you – or the lack of – doesn’t mean he’s right. Don’t invest your self-esteem on his opinion of you.
Experts have attributed this “father wound” the reason for high divorce rates, depression and pornography. Well, I guess you could blame anything for these but when it comes time to make a choice it is ultimate up to us to make the right decision for ourselves. You don’t need a father to give you some sort of affirmation to make the right decisions but it seems we are quick to blame them when we make the wrong ones.
If you want a father figure, there is none better than God himself. The tricky part about that is it is difficult not to project our own father onto the way we view God. I can’t tell you how to do this. You have to find your own way. I’m not going to preach a sermon here. I will say that you can absolutely discover a true relationship with God without comparing Him to your earthly father.
So, if you are a guy today and you’ve got that gnawing feeling in your gut about your father let it go. Forgive them. Stop blaming them for your own shortcomings. Sometimes, as men, we are crazy stubborn about things and how we feel. We will live in denial until it eats through us like a slow acid. Deal with it. Don’t let it poison your life or the relationships you have with others. This is life folks. No one said it would be fair. In fact, we are reminded of this often. If you were abused in some way by your father, that really stinks. Father’s Day really sucks for you. I won’t be insensitive and tell you to get over it. What I will tell you is that there is no way your father can fix that or make up for that. The best way to compensate for that is to be a better man. Use that pain as a ladder, not a crutch. Move yourself past his inadequacies and overcome any evil with good.
The “father wound” is an excuse for bad behavior. Don’t get sucked into it. Move on with your life. Don’t remain stuck as a 10-year-old who is in fear of the belt. That was then. You are now.
The best revenge for a crappy childhood is having a happy adulthood.
The Toronto Marlies officially ended the 2017-2018 hockey season with their Game 7 win over the Texas Stars last night. All of the cups have been won and here are the leagues and teams that have claimed their titles:
American Hockey League (AHL): Toronto Marlies
Andreas Johnson and Mason Marchment each scored twice while netminder Garret Sparks made 29 saves at the Marlies defeated the Texas Stars 6-1 in Game 7 to win their first Calder Cup and the first men’s professional hockey title for the city of Toronot since 1967.
ECHL: Colorado Eagles
Colorado defeated the Florida Everblades in seven games to repeat as Kelly Cup champions in their final season before moving to the AHL next season. The Eagles rallied from a 2-1 deficit in the third period as Gabriel Verpaelst netted the game winner with 2:29 left.
Federal Hockey League (FHL): Watertown Wolves
The Wolves defeated the Port Huron Prowlers 3 games to 1 to win the Commissioner’s Cup. This was their second FHL title having won it previously in 2015. Gavin Yates led the Wolves with six goals in the playoffs and was awarded the league’s MVP.
Southern Professional Hockey League (SPHL): Huntsville Havoc
The Havoc became the first fourth-seeded team to win the SPHL President’s Cup beating the Peoria Rivermen 2 games to 1. Sy Nutkevtich, who scored a goal in each playoff game against Peoria, had 13 points (5 goals, 8 assists) in the postseason and was named the MVP. This was the Havoc’s second league title. They last won it in 2010.
National Women’s Hockey League (NWHL): Metropolitan Riveters
The Riveters knocked off the defending Isobel Cup champs with a 1-0 win over the Buffalo Beauts. Katie Fitzgerald was the game’s MVP as she held Buffalo scoreless. Alexa Gruschow got the game’s only goal in the first period for the Riveters. This was their first Isobel Cup title.
North American Hockey League (NAHL): Shreveport Mudbugs
The Mudbugs came from behind to beat the Minot Minotauros 2-1 to win the Robertson Cup. Cole Quisenberry tipped home the game winner early in the third period for the Mudbugs. This was the Mudbugs’ first title in the NAHL. The franchise had previously won titles in 1999, 2000, 2001 and 2011 in the Western Professional Hockey League (WPHL) and Central Hockey League (CHL).
United States Hockey League (USHL): Fargo Force
The Force won their first title in team history winning the Clark Cup over the Youngstown Phantoms. The Force got a late goal from Ty Farmer and an empty net goal from Mark Senden wo win 4-2 in Game 4 and clinch the series 3 games to 1. It took 10 years, 667 games and 63 playoff games for their first title.
Western Hockey League (WHL): Swift Current Broncos
The Broncos captured the Memorial Cup for the first time in 25 years. Beck Malenstyn put in an empty net goal to shut the door on the Everett Silvertips for a 3-0 win in Game 6. It wasn’t an easy path for the Broncos as it took them seven games to eliminate the Regina Pats in the first round and another seven games to advance past Moose Jaw in the second round. In the Eastern Conference final, they defeated Lethbridge 4 games to 2.
The Saskatchewan Rush won their third National Lacrosse League (NLL) title in Game 3 of the championship series against the Rochester Knighthawks. Jeff Shattler scored four goals in the series-deciding game in the 15-10 win. For the Rush, the win was particularly sweet redemption after having their two-year reign atop the NLL come to a gut-wrenching conclusion last year as they lost the final to the Georgia Swarm especially losing the deciding Game 2 at home in overtime. But the Rush were determined to get back to the top and they rumbled through the regular season with a 14-4 record which earned them home-floor advantage throughout the playoffs. They wound up needing it and using it to their full advantage with a raucous crowd of 13,645 at SaskTel Centre in Saskatoon watching the Rush hoist the newly minted NLL Cup.
The American Arena League (AAL) wrapped up their regular season but the playoff schedule is a little blurry. The Georgia Doom defeated the Atlanta Havoc on Saturday, 48-42, to clinch a playoff berth but the Doom owners decided not to participate in the playoffs. Don’t expect the league’s website to be much help either. According to the standings, the top teams are: Richmond Roughriders (10-1), Atlanta Havoc (9-2), Georgia Doom (6-2) and Carolina Energy (6-3).
Washington Valor defensive back Fred Obi has been named the Arena Football League (AFL) Week 9’s Defensive Player of the Week for his performance against the Philadelphia Soul. In his first game with the Valor, Obi recorded three solo tackles, one pass break-up and a pair of interceptions, the second of which occurred with just 18 seconds left in the game and sealed the Washington win.
The Champions Indoor Football (CIF) league begins their playoffs this weekend with eight teams entering the postseason.
Duke City Gladiators vs. Wichita Force
Amarillo Venom vs. Texas Revolution
Salina Liberty vs. Bismarck Bucks
Sioux City Bandits vs. Quad Cities Steamwheelers
Champions Bowl IV will be played the weekend of June 30th, with the location of the game to be determined during the playoffs.
The Sioux Falls Storm stunned the Iowa Barnstormers in a week 16 Indoor Football League (IFL) showdown. The Storm would begin the third quarter with a 25-yard field goal by Miles Bergner, cutting the Barnstormers lead to 35-31. The Barnstormers would extend their lead to 49-31 after scoring on back to back drives. The first score was a 21-yard touchdown pass by Drew Powell to Skyler Scott and then a 29-yard touchdown pass by Drew Powell to Brady Roland. The Storm would end the third quarter with a team safety, trailing 49-33. The Sioux Falls Storm would be the only team to score in the fourth quarter to earn their tenth win of the season with a 51-49 victory. The first score was a one-yard rushing touchdown by Lorenzo Brown along with a successful two-point conversion where Lorenzo Brown found Damond Powell, next Lorenzo Brown would get a two-yard rushing touchdown with a successful two-point conversion after Lorenzo Brown hit Damian Ford and then the Thunder Defense would block the game winning field and earn a safety from it.
The Columbus Lions defeated the Maine Mammoths 55-34 on Saturday night in the National Arena League (NAL). The Lions held off a late charge from the Mammoths to improve their record to 5-2 on the season. This loss drops the Mammoths to 1-7 on the year. Quayvon Hicks led the offense on Saturday. Hicks rushed for three touchdowns, with his final touchdown sealing the game for the Lions. Quarterback Mason Espinosa had another efficient day throwing for over 250 yards and five touchdowns. Triston Purifoy had a monster game for the Lions. Purify hauled in 11 passes for 111 yards and three touchdowns. Durron Neal contributed with 84 yards on four catches and two touchdowns. The Lions offense totaled 281 yards on the day and averaged 5.9 yards per play.
In the American Ultimate Disc League (AUDL), the DC Breeze had a thrilling 25-24 overtime win over the Toronto Rush to hand the Rush their first loss of the season. Toronto had the disc with 38 seconds remaining in overtime with a chance to send the contest to the sudden death 2nd OT; however, the DC defense held on and frustrated Toronto’s offensive push.
The revival of the XFL, which plans to start in 2020 with eight teams is considering St. Louis, Houston, San Antonio and Los Angeles.
The BIG3 Basketball League is coming back again this summer and the 3-on-3 league starts on June 22nd with live streaming the league’s game for a nine-week period with one game being shown each Friday.
Major League Quidditch (MLQ) has begun its fourth season with 16 teams. The Austin Outlaws are the defending champions.
European Football League Final: Potsdam Royals 43, Milano Seamen 42
Germany’s Potsdam Royals overcame a fourth quarter, two touchdown deficit and added the winning two point conversion with 22 seconds left to defeat the Milano Seamen 43-42 in Milano, Italy and win the European Football League, EFL, title.
Royals quarterback Austin Gahafer completed 31 of 48 passes for 404 yards and three touchdowns while running back Tyvis Smith scored three touchdowns. Wide receiver Frederik Myrup Nielsen caught 11 passes for 161 yards and a touchdown while Max Zimmerman had eight receptions for 121 yards and a score. The other touchdown was scored by David Soul.
In the fourth quarter, after a 78 yard drive which included a fourth down conversion in their own zone, the Royals scored with Smith rushing for a seven yard touchdown. With the score 42-41 the Royals elected to go for the win. On the first two-point conversion attempt, Smith scored but a holding call nullified the two points. The next attempt, with 22 seconds on the clock was successful and Potsdam held a 43-42 lead.
Milano had one final shot at winning the game but the Royals blocked their 60-yard attempt as time expired.
Central European Football League Bowl XII: Swarco Raiders 49, Istanbul Koc Rams 20
With 4,000 fans looking on a Tivoli Stadium in Innsbruck, Austria, the Swarco Raiders defeated the Istanbul Koc Rams from Turkey 49-20 to capture CEFL Bowl XIII and repeat as CEFL champions.
Sandro Platzgummer led the Raiders with four touchdowns in the game as the Raiders broke open a tense football game in the second half.
Trailing 28-14 at halftime, the Rams came out in the second half with Quarterback David Whipple marching his team to the Swarco 15 yard line before connecting with Kaan Özer to narrow the lead to 28-20.
That was as close as they got. The rains came and so did Platzgummer. In a sudden heavy downpour, Platzgummer was unstoppable in the second half reeling off touchdown runs of 10 and 70 yards. Then he scored on an amazing 45 yard punt return, breaking four tackles and leaving would-be tacklers flailing their arms and sealing the final score, 49-20.