The common theme in almost every Driving 101 posts I have made is the impatience of drivers that roll along our highways. You know the person – the one who pulls out in front of you forcing you to brake when there is absolutely no traffic behind you. Then there is the person who flings their hands up in frustration because you didn’t run that red light. Of course, who can ignore that driver who is tailgating you and would want to push you out of their way.
Impatience in driving is a huge problem.
Okay, I get it. Driving is boring. We hate it. We are all trying to get from one place to another. Unfortunately there are other people on the road doing the same thing. Shocking I know. It always amazes me in the morning commute when someone is driving at warp speed weaving in and out of traffic toward downtown. I will usually say to that driver: “We are all trying to get to work too. You’re not the only one.”
The impatience thing is an epidemic. Impatience often escalates into road rage. So how can we deal with impatient drivers?
- Let it go. Get out of their way when possible. It’s not worth flipping someone off or getting shot by someone who gets mad about it. Driving isn’t a competition. You aren’t losing a race. Ignore them.
- Stay calm. Don’t get mad or try to make them more angry by slowing down even more or continuing to get in their way. The important thing to do in these situations is to operate YOUR vehicle safely. Even if the other driver wants to push you out into the road, you proceed when you feel it is safe because if you get hit because you feel stressed by the other driver, you will be the one hurt by it. More than likely, the other driver will just swerve around you and leave you dealing with the accident.
- Don’t be one. Don’t be the impatient driver. Leave on time to get to your destination. Watch the traffic report for any problems to decide if you need to take another route. Don’t be so quick to hit the horn. Don’t put others in danger. Don’t deliberately prevent someone from merging or changing lanes.
As frustrating as it is, you can’t control what other people do, you can only control what you do. Impatient drivers are a reality in our selfie generation. Impatient drivers think the road is theirs and no one else matters. Impatient drivers cause five million deadly accidents each year. Some of the top impatient causes of these fatal accidents are speeding, failing to yield the right-of-way (I’m not sure anyone really knows who has the right-of-way these days), reckless driving and failure to obey traffic signs and signals.
One of the things I often see is when drivers are turning and they cut the turn too short into the other turn lane. I can see the colors of other drivers’ eyes when they do this. Last week I counted six people talking on their phones while making the turn.
I am often driving through the intersection of Old Hickory Boulevard and Highway 70S in Bellevue and I dread it. There are way too many things going on there with drivers coming from every direction. I have seen drivers take too many chances simply because they are impatient and refuse to wait for traffic to clear before entering the highway.
Be patience grasshopper. Pay attention to the drivers around you. Stay calm.